I certainly agree, but I see it from the other side. In my recent online dating experience, most women I meet don’t want to have sex right away. I’m ok with waiting, but I tell the women I see that “waiting” for me is measured in weeks, not months. I’m not that interested in seeing someone for whom sex is some enormous anxiety-inducing ordeal. I’m also a believer in trusting my gut when I know that a relationship is off the table on the first date. I’m too old to chase after some delusion through desperation to not be alone.