I don’t understand why it’s so terrible to ask a woman to kiss her. I did exactly that years ago with a woman I was interested in and it was quite romantic. I did the same a few weeks ago thru txt with a woman who I’m dating now. We had been out twice, and I txt her that the next time we go out I would like to kiss her and she agreed. Then she txt me that my kissing should be more enthusiastic, so I googled that and watched a couple of videos and read a couple of articles, and the next time we got together we did some hot and heavy kissing for an hour. It was great.